Tinder is proven to be the perfect way to find your perfect match online, but swiping right isn’t enough. The next step after it is an actual conversation which is in most cases started by men. On the other hand, even though women are far behind in making the first step, as they think they would look desperate, there are the ones that would like to start a conversation with the guy they like, but they don’t know how to approach to a guy on Tinder.
The survey made by OKCupid showed that 30% of any message that women send first will turn into a conversation, no matter what the subject was. This number seems low, but if you would send same messages to a guy and a girl at the same time, there are more chances that the guy will answer first no matter how much the line doesn’t make any sense. For some reason, women are always lead by the phrase: If a guy likes you, he would message you first, but they don’t realize that men are more attracted to women who have the initiative than the ones too proud to make the first move. Like in a real life, when a girl offers a drink to a guy in some bar, there are more chances that he would end up with her instead of hit to another, more beautiful women.
The lines that will always work with men are similar to the one that no women will ignore. If you show some interest in a guy and ask him a lot of questions instead of waiting for him to continue the conversation, there is no way he would refuse some coffee or drinks later with you. That doesn’t mean that you have to be the one to ask him on a date, but if you look interested enough, there is no chance that he would allow the conversation to end without asking you for a date. Compliments work as well. Like women, men also want to feel desirable and by giving them compliments, you are feeding their egos. Of course, you don’t want to exaggerate since you don’t want to look desperate or make him become too cocky.Don’t be too shy, here are 12 best Tinder openers to use on guys you may want to try out.